Instructions
- Step 1: Be truthful If you’re dealing with a close friend, be truthful. If you don’t want to go, say you don’t want to go. A good friend will understand.
- Step 2: Don’t offer an excuse If the asker is not a close friend, say thank you for the invitation. Then, simply say you cannot attend, without offering an excuse.
- TIP: Don’t use a lie as an excuse. Lies lead to more lies, and, if you get caught, it can lead to embarrassment.
- Step 3: Stand firm If the inviter asks why you can’t attend, simply answer that you’re not free that day. It’s not a lie, but it should satisfy their question.
- Step 4: Show empathy Express how you are sorry about missing out on the event.
- Step 5: Plan another engagement Explain how you are excited to see them at a different event, or make other plans for just the two of you.
- FACT: When Emily Post died in 1960, her book, Etiquette: The Blue Book of Social Usage, was in its 89th printing.
You Will Need
- Manners
- A prior engagement
- Future plans
