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Transcript Rachael DeAlto: Rejection sucks. Hunt Ethridge: It does. Rachael: Big time. But, it’s a part of dating. It’s a part of flirting. It’s a part of life. You’re going to get rejected by people for love interests. And you’re going to get rejected for jobs. There’s a lot of stuff that, kind of, you …
Transcript Rachel DeAlto:My point is this, people can flirt anywhere, absolutely anywhere you can start a conversation and get your flirt on. But, there are some places that are better than others, and I’ve dedicated a whole chapter in my book really about finding the best places to flirt. Hunt Ethridge:And. – Rachel:And, coming in …
Transcript – Hunt Ethridge:Hey, Rachel, is that a mirror in your pocket? – Rachel DeAlto:Why? – Hunt:Because I can really see myself in your pants. – Rachel:Ha, ha, ha. – Hunt:This is a classic example of what not to do. – Rachel:Ever. – Hunt:Lines, pick up lines, do they work? – Rachel:No, unless they’re really …
Transcript Rachael DeAlto: Alright, this is neither one of our strong suits, but… Hunt Etheridge: Subtlety… Rachael: …it’s a really important thing to learn. And we can be subtle. Hunt: Yeah, you have to be sometimes, too. Rachael: Because in every situation it’s different. So, flirting subtly is about not being completely overt. You’re not …
Transcript – Hunt Ethridge:Well, a lot of people, when they’re talking about dating, they want to know results and data and things because it’s so nebulous.They don’t know really how to get in it. There’s two real things at play. There’s our make up, biology, for instance. – Rachel DeAlto:It’s not my make-up. Hunt: It’s …
Transcript Rachel DeAlto:So, flirting on Skype. It’s a digital age. Skype is an amazing tool. Hunt Ethridge:Absolutely. Rachel:First of all, it’s free. And you can talk to people all over the world on it. And it’s especially good in long-distance relationships. Hunt: Key, clutch, in long-distance relationships. Rachel:Huge, because you need to be able to …
Transcript Speaker 1: Ring, ring! Speaker 2: Hello? Speaker 1: Hey, it’s Haunt, how are you? Speaker 2: I’m great, how are you? Speaker 1: Good! I just wanted to, you know, let you know I was thinking about you walking home and I just wanted to say ‘hey, what are you up to today?’ …
Transcript Rachael DeAlto: Are you feeling shy? Hunt Ethrideg: I’m a little bit shy. Rachael: A little bit? Hunt: A little bit. Rachael: Well, you need to flirt too as a shy person. Hunt: But it’s, how? It’s so difficult. Everyone’s like talkative and then they do things. What does a shy person do? Rachael: …
Transcript Hunt: Sometimes you want to flirt subtly, and sometimes you don’t want to flirt subtly. You want to take it dirty, and you want to be fun with it too because you don’t want to be crude. You don’t want to walk up to someone and say, “Hey, nice…” yeah, that’s not going to …
Transcript Rachel: Flirting online. Hunt: Got to do it. Rachel: It’s an awesome forum. Hunt: Exactly. A lot of people look at it as so odd or taboo. “Well I’m not going to go online.” Why not? When one more place that you can meet somebody. And of course, you’re going to run into the …
Transcript – Hunt Ethridge:What did you get? – Rachel DeAlto:I got a message. – Hunt: What does it say? – Rachel:Dirty, I can’t read it. – Hunt:Really? So do you flirt over text too? – Rachel:Of course I do. – Hunt:What’s the most fun thing that you like to do? – Rachel:You know, I think …
Transcript – Rachel DeAlto:Touch. – Hunt Ethridge:Flirt. – Rachel:Touch is a really important part about flirting. People can either use too much or too little, and some people are huggy – they’re hugging you all the time. Other people are completely terrified of being touched by anybody. So, it’s all about finding the right balance. …
Transcript – Rachel DeAlto:Okay. So, I know you guys go to the mall a lot. In my teens I was an avid mall goer. I also grew in New Jersey so it’s pretty much par for the course. – Hunt Ethridge:Same with me, I grew up upstate New York, and as a kid there’s not …
Transcript Speaker 1: I know that a lot of first dates or group dates happen at the movies. Rachel: Yes. Speaker 1: And it’s stereotypical that people get their first kisses, or first dot dot dot, at the movies. Oh, the old yawn. So, we just wanted to go over a few ways that you …
Transcript – Hunt:Hi. – Rachel:Hey. – Hunt: Hey, how you doing? My name is Hunt. – Rachel:My name is Rachel. – Hunt: Nice to meet you, Rachel. Do you live here? – Rachel:I do. I live right up stairs, actually. – Hunt:Oh, cool. It’s my first time visiting and I’m thinking about moving here. – …
Transcript Speaker 1: Alright, let’s talk about flirting at the gym. Speaker 2: Well, first of all, you look fantastic. Speaker 1: Aw, thanks! That’s flirting. Speaker 2: So, I imagine you’ve probably had guys come up to you at the gym. Speaker 1: It’s an interesting place because I’m not a huge fan of …
Transcript So, Rachael, I was looking over these TPS Reports and not really sure of all of these line items. Can you help me understand them a little bit better. That one was for my hair. And that one was for my makeup. Right. And that was for. Do you need all those things? I …
Transcript Speaker 1: All right. So this is all about how to flirt at school. Speaker 2: OK. Cool. Sounds good. Speaker 1: So we’re in school. We have classroom setting, maybe there’s some lockers. Speaker 2: Hallways. Speaker 1: And there’s that guy that you were like, ‘[makes sound] He’s cute. How do I …
Transcript Speaker 1: All right ladies listen up. So, you’re married, you’re wifed up, you’re hanging out and making babies and doing all this fun stuff, but how do you keep that spark alive? How do you flirt with your husband? It’s really not that hard because no offense, don’t tell them. They’re kind of …
Transcript Hunt Ethrideg: One of the things that people ask me as a dating coach, they’re like, ‘Well, does it work?’ Well, it worked on someone at least because I’m married. Now, at the same… Rachael DeAlto: I was married. Hunt: Yeah, so we both know what it means to be in there. And one …
Transcript Speaker 1: So, we’re talking about to flirt when you’ve kind of already captured the object of your attention, like how to flirt with your girlfriend. And a lot of times, men being the prototypical hunters, we don’t know what to do with it a lot of times once we’ve captured it. Just because …
Transcript Okay so the topic is how to flirt with your boyfriend. Which is so important because ladies if you got them, you got to keep them. And it’s not done once you get them. Absolutely, you have to keep putting effort into it so there’s a couple different things that I suggest to women …
Transcript Speaker 1:All right. So Facebook is a huge part of flirting and dating. You can’t get around it (?) place . . . Speaker 2:It’s like a digital neighborhood. Speaker 1:Exactly, and you can’t get away from it, so you might as well use it to your advantage. I know personally so many women …
Transcript Hunt: We can’t ignore technology at all because so much of introductions these days at least first of people knowing who they are is done online. Between Facebook and Twitter and Pinterest, and Stumbleupon, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. So knowing how to navigate in a digital world is very important. Rachel: Knowing …
Transcript Hunt: So high school, racing hormones, bouncing off the wall, figuring out who you are. Sometimes it’s a tough time to try to figure out the best ways of doing things. Looking back at some of the stuff I did in high school, like when you’re flirting with girls. That is the dumbest thing …
Transcript Speaker 1: Let’s talk about how to flirt in high school, because I know a lot of people watching are in high school. They’re like, this is some tough stuff. Speaker 2: Yeah, it can be a lot of self discovery time. Speaker 1: Yeah. The thing is you want to discover yourself before …
Transcript Rachel: So let’s give some tips for women, because women need to flirt too. Hunt: They do. Rachel: They actually need to flirt just as much as guys do. And they don’t think it. So my first tip for women is to redefine what flirting is in your head, make sure that you understand …
Transcript Speaker 1: Tips to give guys in order to flirt. The main one that I would say is try to be comfortable. I know this is a really, really difficult thing because you’re usually not comfortable when you go up but find topics of conversation that you’re comfortable talking about. Find a place, an …
Transcript Rachael DeAlto: You wanna know how to flirt with your crush. Which, it can be really intimidating when you like somebody. We’ve all been there when you’re like, “Oh, I really.” I, you know, you like make him a mix tape back in the 80’s and I just dated myself. But, there’s all these …
Transcript Hunt Etheridge: Um, hi! How you doing? Rachael DeAlto: Hi. Hunt: Hi. You, ah, come around here? Rachael: No. Hunt: Why not? Like, this is a great place to be. It’s a fun, fun area. You don’t look like you’re having fun. Rachael: No, I don’t really like it here. Hunt: Well, can I …
Transcript Speaker 1: So, so many guys ask you, how well, how do you flirt? How do you know, what is interesting about it? How do you get it going and doing? And it sounds like it’s such a simple question, but obviously it’s layered with some many nuances. The first thing is every girl …
Transcript Rachael DeAlto: All right so I might have a little experience in this one. Hunt Ethridge: Think so? Rachael: Maybe a little bit about how to flirt with guys. And it’s such a great topic because a lot of women feel like they can’t flirt with guys because they’re gonna come off as easy …
Transcript Speaker 1: So, you come here often? Speaker 2: Wow. That’s one of the one’s you hear so often and people try to figure out the best thing. What’s the worst thing you’ve heard? Speaker 1: I think that one was pretty bad, actually. Speaker 2: Yeah, that’s pretty good. Speaker 1: You know, …
Transcript Maya: Hi there, you beautiful specimen. I am Maya Klausner, featuring in this Howcast kissing video. Some call me Klawz or Klawzy, or on Twitter specifically Klawzy28, if you want to follow some of my quips. As of now, you’ve probably noticed that I’m deliciously comedic. I do stand-up comedy all around New York …
Transcript Maya: Hi there, you beautiful specimen. I am Maya Klausner featuring in this How Cast kissing video. Some call me Klaus or Klausey or on Twitter specifically, Klausey28 if you want to follow some of my quips. As of now, you’ve probably noticed that I’m deliciously comedic. I do stand-up comedy all around New …
Transcript Harrison: So we’re all familiar with kissing games, you know, like Seven Minutes in Heaven, or Spin the Bottle. But there are a lot of things that can arise during a game that can cause you to you know, be a little bit uncomfortable. Maya: Blech. Harrison: Right, blech. What if you get caught …
Transcript So as a lady, we have certain ways we like to be kissed. whether it’s a first kiss, in the midst of a long term romance, what have you. At the end of the day, a girl just wants to feel like a guy is in control of the situation. That penetrating stare’s totally …
Transcript Maya: What’s up, bra? Harrison: What’s up, little lady? Maya: I think you’re the little lady today. You know, something that’s really hard for guys to pull off, literally and figuratively, is the removal of a bra. Now, you want to be able to obviously do this as quickly as possible, but that’s not …
Transcript Maya: So one kiss that I’ve experienced that was very memorable in a positive way, I was walking with someone I had recently started dating and we were planning a date for later that night and we were walking and just being cute and flirting and holding hands, and we hadn’t had much physical …
Transcript Maya: I had a really good time tonight. Harrison: Me too. Me too, that was a lot of fun. We should do it again. Maya: Yeah, I hope sometime soon, first round went so well. Harrison: So, basically what you just saw there was a first kiss. I know it was adorable, but there’s …
Transcript Harrison: As you can see, I was holding her face in this very, very sensual way. She couldn’t get enough. Maya: It’s my personal weakness. Harrison: Exactly. Maya: When a fellow touches my face. Harrison: Basically, how you caress a woman’s face is everything. If you’re going to go in for a kiss and …
Transcript Maya: What you just saw there was the incorporation of a little teeth action. Harrison: Yes. Maya: Doesn’t sound good, but feels good and you probably noticed, looks good. Harrison: Yes, yes. One thing that’s good about teeth is that, huh. Never thought it sounds like that. Maya: It’s good to have teeth, in …
Transcript So here’s some top kissing tips for you men out there. First of all you always cling on your man’s strong leg on your lap, I guess. One thing I really like because I’m a pretty chatty gal, and sometimes I get nervous, and obviously key in dealing with that I sometimes don’t know …
Transcript Harrison: Hello there. Right now, Maya is kissing my neck. She’s doing a great job. Now, what she’s doing is, she’s kissing it very gingerly and very tenderly, but it’s enough to put pressure on me so that it’s very stimulating and it’s kind of… I mean, when you kiss on the lips, it’s …
Transcript Harrison Tweed: So if you couldn’t tell, we were kissing with tongue. Maya: That we were. Harrison: Yes, and we would like to demonstrate and describe some do’s and don’t’s on how to kiss with the tongue. So for example, one thing that I did very well is I made sure there was tongue, …
Transcript Maya: So, if it wasn’t obvious, that was how to kiss softly, soft and sweet. Harrison: When you kiss softly, it can still be passionate, but what you’re trying to convey to your lover, or significant other, is that you care about them and you want to show them passion, but maybe de-sexualizing the …
Transcript Maya: So those of you who are watching, you may have noticed saucier, may we say, dirtier elements to that particular kissing interaction. Now that is perfectly acceptable, if both people are feeling that kind of heat, that extra zest, what were some specific things we were doing? Harrison: Well, the lip bite is …
Transcript Harrison Tweed: Stop, stop, stop, stop. This is no hickey zone. So basically what you just saw and hopefully don’t see, okay. Maya Klausner: That might actually come up by morning. Harrison: That might actually be a hickey. You never want a hickey. They are awful, so you never want to give a hickey. …
Transcript Harrison: Knock. Knock. Knock. Knock. Knock. Maya: Who could that be? Wait! You just left. What are you doing here? Harrison: I know, um. I just, I forgot something. Maya: Oh, my god, did you, like, forget your wallet, our phone, or some, oh! Well, that was unexpected, yet, thrilling. Maya: Yeah. So, basically …
Transcript Harrison: What are you looking at? I’m the one that got hurt. You know what you did. Maya: You’re a coward. Harrison: Oh yeah? I’m a coward? You’re the one that kissed the cow, aren’t you? Maya: That cow was all me and my family had. Harrison: Oh yeah? What do I have? Maya: …
Transcript Harrison: Aw, oh my God. Maya: Thank God, you’re okay. Harrison: God, you saved me. Maya: Go with it. Okay, so you just saw was a literal, breath of life kiss. Harrison: Basically, what a breath of life kiss is, is just when you are going to kiss your significant other what you’re going …
Transcript Maya: Dave, this has been like, I just can’t believe it’s our anniversary already, you know? Harrison: I know. Maya: I mean, two weeks, God. Harrison: Two weeks is… Maya: It’s like a movie. Harrison: I know. Maya: Epic. Harrison: Oh, God. It’s just like Superbad. Maya: I just can’t believe that, we made …
Transcript Maya: Um, Harrison can I just talk to you for a second? Harrison: Um, yeah let me… Maya: No that’s great just save that. Harrison: Yeah, yeah. Maya: You know I think we have really good professional chemistry but also minus the professional. If you just leave in the chemistry part. Harrison: Wait, you’re …
Transcript Harrison: So, a lot of you kids in high school, you probably know, you know like, you’re getting a little hot and bothered. Where you going to take this? You know, so what’s a place that you used to go to when you were in high school to make out? Maya: Well, assuming I …
Transcript A: Hey guys. So a lot of dates take place in the movies. Everyone goes to the movies for a date. Not a big deal, you really don’t get to talk. I don’t know who invented this idea. But when you are on a movie date, there’s a lot of advantages you can take …
Transcript Maya: So you find yourself in a car, sometimes driving, sometimes not. Sometimes you want to make out in a car. I unfortunately, have missed out on this experience, because I grew up in New York and subway making out is a little more frowned upon. I know. Harrison: Yes, but you like being …
Transcript Maya: Alright guys. We’re going to fill you in on how to have a good make-out sess, otherwise known as session. A good way to get your smooch on. This is not a joke, guys. This is very serious. I would say, you start out with some simple but signaling touches, just to lay …
Transcript Maya: Okay, guys, first kiss. Now this can be a very intense scenario. We are here to make it less intense. For my first kiss, it was very much a part of a group orchestration which is common if you’re a teenager because we all hang out in groups of 12 to 15 for …
Transcript Harrison: So we’ve all had bad kisses. I mean I’m sure Maya, I’m sure you have. Maya: I don’t know what that’s supposed to mean, but yeah. Harrison: Well I know I have. Maya: Not that way. Harrison: So, you have to know deal with a bad kisser. I mean, basically, so my worst …
Transcript So, how to reject a guy. Well, let’s face it, nobody likes to be rejected. So, when it comes to rejecting a guy, ask yourself how would you like to be rejected? There’s really no right way to do this, is there? So, I think the first thing is to be gentle when it …
Transcript Hi, my name is Jonathon Aslay, I’m a dating and relationship coach for women. I’m the founder of Understand Men Now, real life, real issues, real relationships. I’m also your guy spy into the male mind, and I’m a heart protector for women. So I’m often asked, how did I get started in this? …
Transcript How to break up with a guy. I think it’s important to be crystal clear when it comes to breaking up with anybody, because the worst thing you can do is create false hope. Second, keep it short and sweet. The reality is, if the relationship is going to end the last thing you …
Transcript Is a bad sign that a man over 45 has never been married? Let me just say this. If we buy into the belief that men over 45 are a bad risk, you might be missing out on some of the greatest opportunities out there. There are an abundance of men over 45 who …
Transcript What do men want? Most men get a bad rap that all we want is sex. Yes, it’s true in the early stages of a relationship when we’re out on the hunt, out on the prowl. We are attracted to you physically, so we want to be physical with you and we want regular …
