Dating Tips for Guys

Transcript Alright, guys, there are so many dating websites out there. It’s probably very confusing to try to figure out which ones to go on. You know. Every day a new one pops up. And, you know, there is a huge difference among them, and I’d like to kind of talk about which ones kind …

Transcript Alright, guys. This is all about dating from a woman’s perspective and this video is about how to flirt. Which could literally take an hour or three days to try to explain. But it really comes down to one thing, it’s all about making the other person feel good about themselves, and women, you …

Transcript Alright, guys, this is how to get a girl’s number from my perspective as a woman. And maybe this isn’t every woman’s perspective, but you need to just ask for it. It’s all about the guy taking the initiative. And for whatever it’s worth, you know, in this feminist movement and everybody’s. you know, …

Transcript All right, guys. So you made it through the first date. [claps] Yay. Okay, so now what do you do to get the second date? The biggest thing, and this is where guys fall short so many times, is the follow up. Because frankly, you could have this amazing date and if you don’t …

Transcript Your blind date isn’t going well; What do you do? This is the part in your life when you just have to suck it up. Sorry guys, but you’re already out with her. You’re not going to run off to the bathroom. You’re not going to have your friends make an emergency phone call …

Transcript So you’ve had the date and it’s going pretty well and you’re interesting in taking it a little step further. It’s natural progression so it’s how do you initiate that first kiss? How do you do it without being awkward? And frankly there’s really no set rules on this one. You just have to …

Transcript Guys, let’s talk about how to keep a woman interested. Now, you’ve obviously gone out with her a couple times. You’re talking on the phone, you’re texting. You know, how do you kind of keep it going? How do you keep the magic bubbling? So it’s really all about continuing to keep the connection. …

Transcript I think this is probably a really popular video for guys. Because you know, a lot of guys, they don’t want to jump in too fast. They want to keep it casual. They want to make sure she understands the casual. And I think that’s the biggest thing. Is managing expectations. So if you …

Transcript Alright, guys, so you want to know if she’s interested. You’ve met this girl. You’re, you know, interested in her, obviously, but you want to be able to read her cues to see if she’s interested back. And that is, , you know, it’s a little touchy. Because there’s some women and they’re just …

Transcript So let’s talk about when it’s serious. And honestly, you guys should know this, because you’re going to be the initiator of it. So if you’re going to take it to the next level, it’s got to come from you. And you’re going to kind of take the lead and let us know that, …

Transcript All right. Let’s talk about how and where to meet a girl. It really depends on what you’re looking for. If you’re looking for a serious relationship, you’re going to put a little more effort into finding love. If you’re just looking to meet people to hang out with, hook up with, you know …

Transcript Let’s talk about how do you talk to a girl on the phone. So you’ve gotten her number, you’ve actually summoned up the hutspah to call and you’re now having a conversation because she didn’t let it go to voice mail. So what do you talk about? First of all, talk about something. The …

Transcript This video is about how to understand women. I don’t think we have enough time for this but I’m going to break it down as simply as possible. Women need to feel safe. I don’t care what woman you are dating, it doesn’t matter, if you really want to understand women, which is probably …

Transcript This is partially something that is teachable, and some of it’s going to come from within you. The thing of it is that you can’t be too aggressive at first. The worst thing you can do is run in for a kiss, bump your teeth, and then stick your tongue down their throat. It’s …

Transcript Do you wash your pants with Windex? Because I can see myself in them. Are you a parking ticket? Because you have fine written all over you. Is that a mirror in your pants? Because I can see myself in them. This video is about the pickup lines that you should never use, which …

Transcript Let’s talk about the pick up lines that you should use and I’m going to use and I’m going to start that by saying, don’t use any. You’re going to use what’s around you. So whatever is in your environment that you are in when you see someone you are interested in, that’s what …

Transcript Let’s talk about your profile for the online dating websites that you’re on. This is like your first impression, so you actually have to put a little more effort into it than clicking all the boxes and throwing up a picture. The first thing, and I can’t stress this enough, is you need a …

Transcript All right, so let’s talk about the first message that you send on an online dating site to somebody you’re interested in. You’ve seen their profile, you’ve read through it thoroughly, you’ve actually paid attention, you’ve looked through their pictures. You’re going to try to pull something from that profile to make that connection. …

Transcript This is all about how to become more than friends with that girl that you’ve either had a crush on since grade school, or you’ve been hanging out with and you just don’t know how to take it to the next level. This is one of the hardest things to do, because you know …

Transcript My name is Rachel DeAlto, I am a flirting and dating expert. You can check me out at theflirtexpert.com. I’m also the founder of FlirtMe which is a way for woman to flirt without giving out their personal information. But I work with guys and girls on their flirting and dating needs. I’ve always …

Transcript Maybe your grandmother or maybe your aunt, maybe your uncle set you up on a blind date and you need to know how to act when you’re out on it. You haven’t met this woman, probably heard lots about her, and the biggest thing to remember when you’re on a blind date is don’t …

Transcript You guys want to know about creating a romantic atmosphere. Honestly, this really does go back to a lot of clichés. I mean, women like to be pampered, so if you want to be romantic, bring the flowers; pop open a bottle of wine. Make some time together special. It doesn’t mean that you …

Transcript Let’s talk about some creative date night ideas. Now, you know, everybody can take anybody to dinner and a movie or a show, or whatever. What about doing something a little more fun? Now, we’re in New York City, here, so there’s a lot of amazing places that you can go and kind of …

Transcript All lright guys, let’s talk about dating after a divorce. It’s either you’re divorced, or she’s divorced. You kind of have to realize that there’s a lot of emotions at stake, there’s kind of an extra set of rules on this one that you have to take into account. One is, you need to …

Transcript Guys, we’re going to talk about dating older women. So maybe you have that little cougar fetish going on. Go for it, absolutely. Just know what you’re getting into. So, you know, it depends on kind of how old you are and how old she is. If you’re dating somebody, you know, 15 years …

Transcript All right, let’s talk about dating single moms. Okay, so you met this chick she’s rock star, and she’s got kids. So you know what there’s a whole different set of rules here that you have to respect, and if you can’t respect them you kind of have to walk away. One is you’re …

Transcript Alright guys. So everybody wants to know, do the good guys finish last? And I like to equate this with nice guys and frankly, yes. But not because of what you think and there’s a way to kind of work around it. We want a good guy. All women want to have a good …

Transcript All right. Let’s talk about what we’re going to do on that first date. Because, you flirted your way to get the number. You’ve gotten the number. And, you actually called her. You didn’t leave her a creepy message. And you’re out on a date. What do you do now? So, there’s some dos …

Transcript Let’s talk about flirting tips for dating websites. There’s a ton of websites out there where you go out and meet people and it’s all about going fishing. Keep it as light and fun as possible but at the same time know what you’re looking for. If you see someone you’re attracted to, you …

Transcript Let’s talk about flirting on Facebook. My first advice for flirting on Facebook is don’t do it. Don’t do it unless you’re in a relationship, because Facebook is a very open network of people. We’re in a digital age. There is so much information out there. People are connected in all different areas, and …

Transcript Flirting on Twitter is the topic of this video. Just like on Facebook, Twitter’s an even more open social network. Unless you protect your tweets, everybody can see them; that means your mother, grandmother, and the five girls that you’re seeing at the same time. You really shouldn’t be flirting on Twitter. You can …

Transcript All right guys, so confidence is huge. It is probably the biggest turn on to a woman. So what if you’re not so confident? What if you need a little help? It’s totally fine. It’s kind of like one of those fake it till you make it situations. So literally, it’s almost like a …

Transcript If you’re going to ask a girl out, it’s pretty simple. Like you just have to ask the question. You have to get the number, maybe you watched the other video and you make the plans. You know, it’s all about the guy making the initiative and being, you know, the initiator and being …

Transcript Alright guys, let’s talk about attracting women, and it really comes down to two things. It’s paying compliments and having confidence. So you mix those two things together and you’re going to become irresistible. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt, you don’t have to be a rockstar. But you do have to make …

Transcript Female Speaker 1: So you don’t want to go play ping pong? Female Speaker 2: No! Female Speaker 1: Okay, that’s fine. Let’s talk about what type of restaurant you should be picking. So obviously, you have to pick something that you can actually have a conversation in. If you’re going to go to …

Transcript Let’s talk about dating on a tight budget. Times are hard. Everybody is trying to save. Let’s figure out a way that you can have a great time, a great date, without overspending, because you don’t want to go above your means right now. Frankly guys, you’re going to be paying for at least …

Transcript All right, let’s talk about flattering a girl, because clearly every single video that we have done, is all about making the girl feel good. That’s what you need to do. I mean, flattering is complimenting, is making her feel as beautiful as possible without you sounding cheesy. So, you need to just be …