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Transcript So why do men lie? Usually, the number one reason why most people lie is fear. Might be fear of hurting your feelings. Might be fear of rejection. Might be the fear or avoidance of confrontation. One of the main reasons why men lie is fear. Now another thing that men do, it’s easier …
Transcript How to read men. Let me help you interpret guy speak. When a guy says something like, ‘I’m not looking for a serious relationship,’ or ‘I’m not ready for a relationship right now,’ chances are this is a guy who’s seeking just a one-night stand. So when it comes to interpreting guys or reading …
Transcript So why do men lose interest? Well, one of the first causes is boredom. The second thing is too much drama. Okay? Guys will lose interest when there’s too much drama in a relationship. So if there is a lot of activity going on with your girlfriends, or maybe your family, and it’s more …
Transcript What do men need? Okay, the $64,000 question. But let me just tell you what’s so important in a long-term relationship and what men truly need is respect, okay. Men need to be respected. They want to feel your acceptance, your trust and you like the way they think. One of the most challenging …
Transcript What do men like? Well, in my book The Relationships Men Commit to and Why, I wrote about what I call the four keys to the kingdom. We need to be fed, we need it to be fun, we need it to be fresh and we need to have regular sex. Let’s face it. …
Transcript How do men think? Well, we don’t think whatsoever. No, I am just kidding. When it comes to understanding men and the way we think, men tend to think more logically and women tend to think more emotionally. So, when you want to connect with a guy and find out what’s going on inside …
Transcript When it comes to dating divorced men, there are a number of factors you need to consider. How long has he been divorced? Is he just coming out of his marriage? Did he just move out of the house? Or has it been a couple years? If they’re still dealing with the issues of …
Transcript Okay. When it comes to dating men with children, there are a number of things to consider. Personally, I have children, so I’ve been down this road. I can tell you, in the early stages of dating, I was kind of all over the map, when it came to even my custody with my …
Transcript OK, when it comes to comes to understanding guys, as your guys find the male mind, we guys are actually complicated, believe it or not. As much as everyone tells you we’re simple, we’re just basically an On-Off switch, there’s a lot more to guys. And one thing guys don’t like, is to be …
Transcript Ways guys show they care. First off, they care about what you think. That’s one way that a man those he cares. He’s interested in what you’re thinking and he wants to have a conversation with you. Another way a guy shows he cares is he wants to please you. He wants to make …
Transcript None of us are mind readers, okay. But the best way to tell what’s going on in a guy’s mind is his actions match his words. Action-matched words are the best way to determine what’s going on in a guy’s head. So when a guy says he’s going to call you and doesn’t call, …
Transcript When it comes to dating older men there are some advantages and disadvantages. Some of the advantages are they come to the table with more experience. They might have a really good job by this point so they are financially secure in where there at in there life. Some disadvantages, they are set in …
Transcript OK, when it comes to blending lives, this is going to be a challenge for most relationships, especially those with children. One of the challenges that happen in a relationship is being able to blend lives. Do your lifestyles match? Can you even see each other, what if you have distance and location that …
Transcript Men who want a relationship and are seriously ready for a long term committed relationship are men who tend to court a girl. They are not looking for the quick lay, they are not looking to get into your pants right away. They are looking to get to know you and spend time with …
Transcript What to wear on a date. It’s all about the image we want to project. What you advertise is whats going to be seen out there. Remember, men are visual creatures. Lets say you dress in something sexy. Chances are you’re going to grab his attention and motivate him to want to approachyou in …
Transcript Know this one thing let him pursue you especially in the early stages of the relationship. If you’re just started to date or your first few months in let him take the lead. Let him initiate the conversations. Let him call you instead of you chasing him. Men need to have the chase in …
Transcript What do guys look for in a woman? OK. Now, let’s face it, guys are visual creatures, so we’re going to be attracted to your looks. Good health, good hygiene is going to be something attractive, versus those women who are stuck up on their looks. Another thing that guys look for, is confidence …
Transcript When it comes to dating friends, just remember that the best relationships are built on a good friendship. I’ve interviewed hundreds and hundreds of people that have been married for five, 10, 20, if not 30 or 40 years. And the best relationships have been the ones that have started with friendship. And one …
Transcript Let’s face it, most relationships barely make it past the first day if not the third day, and often times there is this expectation that women are expected to have sex by the third date, okay? So let’s throw that rule out the window for a moment, and recognize that when it comes to …
Transcript When it comes to texting and understanding guys, one of the things you need to know first off, it don’t overwhelm. Guys like it simple and when you text too much information, it’s going to turn a guy off. Now I kind of have a rule of thumb that I’ve written about in my …
Transcript When it comes to Valentine’s Day, a gift from the heart always means something to a man. But recognize that men are a little different than women, okay? The kind of gifts that you might be thinking you like, isn’t going to necessarily be the gifts that he might like. So when it comes …
Transcript Okay, friends with benefits, good or bad? Well, I guess it depends on what you’re looking for. When it comes to friends with benefits, it can be a fantastic relationship with all the bells and whistles that come with it. You get the friendship and you get the sex. So friends with benefits could …
Transcript How to make a guy fall in love with you. First off, I don’t believe in making someone do anything. Okay? But I will tell you about men is, we love the chase. Okay? In my book ‘The Relationships Men Commit to and Why,’ I have a whole chapter devoted to what I call …
Transcript How do you approach a guy at a bar? First off, if a guy’s at a bar that you’re interested in, take interest in what he’s going. If he’s talking to his friends, just kind of watch what’s going on. If he’s watching the game, start taking interest in the game. Then start moving …
Transcript So how to know if a guy’s flirting with you. A couple things. Again, if he makes eye contact. That’s usually a sign he’s into you. If he’s leaning toward you. But most guys are like big peacocks and they want to show off. So if he’s intelligent, he’s going to talk about something …
Transcript How to get a guy to notice you. First up, guys are visual creatures, OK? So if you’re out in public, dress to impress, okay? Right colors usually get a guy’s attention, okay? Now, again, one of the best ways to get a guy to notice you is a smile. A warm smile always …
Transcript Okay. How to tell if a guy likes you. Chances are if he’s following you, he texts you, you guys are having regular communication, those are good signs that he likes you. He wants to make plans to go out on a date with you. That’s a great sign that a guy is into …
Transcript So we’re going to talk about online dating. When it comes to online dating there’s so many choices to choose from. So, one of the first things is pick a website that’s right for you. There’s activity websites, there’s some romantic websites, there’s websites for different age brackets so first choose the site that’s …
Transcript When it comes to meeting men over 40, first off, just be prepared to meet men anywhere, OK? That’s one of the first things when it comes to attracting a man, is be prepared. OK. Online dating is one of the number one places men over 40 are now going to to attract love …
Transcript What to look for in a guy over forty. How much weight determines how long you are going to have to wait. Some of the advantages are, they come to the table with more experience. They might even have a really good job at this point so they’re financially secure in where they are …
Transcript How to impress a guy on a first date. The best way to impress a guy is be interesting and be interested. Men are attracted to women that are confident, that have a great sense of humor, and intelligence. When you’re having a conversation, be interested in what he’s talking about, and also be …
Transcript How do you hook a guy with body language? OK, first off, again, it starts with the eye contact. OK? Men are visual creatures. When you connect with their eyes you’re going to be reaching deep into their soul. That’s the first thing. Soon as you’re in his space, give him that five second …
Transcript First off, you’ve probably got some built-up anxiety, you’ve got even some expectation, maybe even some fear of rejection. So the first thing you do, when you want to attract your crush, is breathe, because you might be tensed up, and you want to approach this guy. The best way to get his attention …
Transcript The best to tell if a guy’s into you is, is his energy coming towards you or are you trying to pull his energy in? He calls for no reason. He makes plans for dates. He wants to spend time with you. He even talks about the future. He says, ‘What are you doing …
Transcript How to French Kiss When it comes to French kissing, there’s a fine line between sexy and sloppy. Here’s how to keep your smooches sensual. You will need a clean mouth. Step 1. Know what French kissing is. A kiss during which one or both partner’s tongues enter the other person’s mouth. Step 2. …
Transcript In astrology Scorpio is the sign of sex. What this means is that Scorpio represents the power of procreation, of creation, the power of birth, life, death, and rebirthing. So, all of that symbolically represents what the Scorpio journey is about. In body parts, the sign of Scorpio rules the genitals. Now, other signs …
Transcript The parts of the body that Aquarius rules are the calves and ankles. Let me explain, in Astrology each sign is aligned with or has some kind of affinity to a body part; rules, as we say, that body part. In some way it symbolizes what the sign is about. Aquarius is a sign …
Transcript The part of the body Pisces rules are the feet. And in astrology, each sign is connected to/aligned with/ what we call ruled; a part of the body. For Pisces, the feet are important because, in many ways, the feet represent our ability to move forward in life. For a Piscean particularly, I’ll just …
Transcript In astrology, the body part that Libra rules is the lower back and buttocks. Let me explain that astrology aligns certain body parts with the signs. For Libra, not only is the back important in terms of a Libra’s health and well-being, to keep a straight back, to not do something that might hurt …
Transcript I’m an astrologer. Of course many astrologers come in different sizes and shapes and breeds. The way I deal and work with astrology is that I write about it. I am mainly an astrologer writer. I have written a number of books. My most well-known book is called “The Only Astrology Book You Will …
Transcript The part of the body that Virgo rules is the stomach area. This is from the bottom of the chest all the way down to the beginning of the pubic area, we call it something else. In astrology, each sign is connected to, and what we say rules, a certain body part. For Virgo …
Transcript The part of the body that Sagittarius rules are the hips and the thighs. Let me explain that, in Astrology, each sign is connected to or has an affinity toward and what we call rules, a certain part of the body. For Sagittarius, which is the sign of volition, of freedom, of locomotion, literally …
Transcript Capricorn rules the knees in astrology. Let me explain that. The signs are all connected in some way to a part of the body, and for Capricorn, it is the knees. Now this has a symbolic meaning because Capricorn tends to be an achiever and a go-getter and the knees, of course, propel human …
Transcript Since Capricorn is the sign of order and stability, the key to getting a Capricorn either to leave you or for you to get out of the relationship, is to create a sense of discord, a sense of disorder or chaos. Now this can be done emotionally, it could be physically; it could be …
Transcript The part of the body that Gemini rules are the arms, the top of the shoulders and the hands. Now let me explain that in astrology each sign is connected to, has an affinity to, what we call rules, a part of the body. And since Gemini is the sign of communication human beings …
Transcript Aquarius is the intellectual, independent person, a free spirit, someone who is imaginative and curious. Now, all of these qualities kind of boil down to someone who has an outlook that goes outward, not inward. Let’s say you want now to get rid of the Aquarian. It’s going to be easy because Aquarius will …
Transcript The body part connected to Taurus is the neck and the top of the chest area. Let me explain that in astrology, each sign has an affinity to or a connection to a body part, and for Taurus, the throat, the neck, and the top of the chest is the area that Taurus rules, …
Transcript Leo is the sign of strength and power. The body part in astrology that Leo rules is the spine. When one talks about having courage you say, “He has good backbone.” or, “She’s got good spine.” When I say rules, every sign in the zodiac is connected to or aligned with in some way …
Transcript Pisces is the one that needs and seeks a soulmate. Pisces wants to be in a deep emotional bond with its partner, therefore breaking up with a Pisces can be both difficult and easy depending on, it’s particularly how to tell the Pisces in words, not real words, but in your actions that you …
Transcript Cancer is the sign in the zodiac of nurturing and of giving. So basically the cancer person is very giving in a sexual way, very affectionate, loves to be cuddle and coddled. The part of body that cancer rules is the chest and the breast area. In a certain way it relates to being …
Transcript Now let me explain, in Astrology the signs are connected in certain ways to the body. The body part that an Aries rules is the head. One can see in the Aries character the Aries wants to get ahead, wants to be in front, wants to be the first. So the head in many …
Transcript Gemini is curious and communicative and therefore, in a relationship, the minute that you, being in a Gemini relationship, you start to seem boring, you seem as if everything you say is something you’ve said before. You seem, I don’t mean that you really are, but if you seem that way to a Gemini. …
Transcript Breaking up with a Leo can be fairly easy because all you have to do is withdraw your attention. You start by hogging the spotlight yourself. You hog the conversation. You start criticizing. You nag. You don’t remember their birthday or Valentine’s day. You don’t give them a gift. You simply stop putting them …
Transcript Sagittarius is the sign of freedom so basically it’s very easy to break up with a Sagittarian which is to curb their freedom. Being nagging, being needy, be someone who insists that they arrive on time, do what you want, can’t go anywhere because you need them at home, it’s very easy because Sagittarius …
Transcript Emotionally Cancer needs comfort, a feeling of security, a feeling that the relationship is like a downy nest to be in the relationship so that’s it’s protective. Protective is a good word because Cancerians are not only protective themselves as nurturers but they also like to feel safe. That’s on every level, financially, emotionally …
Transcript Libra is the sign of partnership, therefore is committed in a partnership. Libra also needs to feel that the partnership is magical and romantic and special and filled with what I might call, “Champagne bubbles”. In other words this should be a quality of excitement or a quality that is unusual and special and …
Transcript Scorpio is a difficult sign to break up with not because the Scorpio will last forever, it will if Scorpio feels loved and feels that you’re loyal to him or her, but the difficulty is Scorpio can be vindictive. Scorpio has a temper or an anger, more than a temper even. Scorpio can make …
Transcript Breaking up with a Taurus tends not to be easy because the longer you’re in the relationship, the more entwined the Taurus becomes into you and into maintaining the stability of it. Taurus is a person who wants to be in something that’s loyal and forever. Longevity is a key in Taurus’s relationships. To …
Transcript Virgo tends to be a discriminating person that has good taste and high standards. Immediately, by becoming a person that isn’t up to the Virgo standard will start to break up the relationship. Virgo’s do withstand a lot. In other words, this is going to take some time because a Virgo will overlook certain …
Transcript Capricorns are drawn to each other because of their strengths. They are both very strong signs. Capricorn in astrology is the sign of success, achievement, taking on of authority and doing something with one’s life which is public. Not necessarily that they are famous but they work well in the public because they can …
Transcript These two are very compatible. They have many goals that are in common. Both of them look for life that is explorative. Both love to play with ideas, to get out, to be independent, to see life as an adventure, and to not be tied down. So, they have a lot in common from …
Transcript Aquarius and Pisces are very different creatures, in a sense. Aquarius is an air sign, meaning that it lives in its mind. Air, in astrology, stand for mental processes. Of thinking, reasoning, of approaching life rationally, of finding answers, of exploring, of learning new things. Pisces is a water sign, deeply water. Water, in …
Transcript Capricorn and Pisces are a very compatible mix. To begin with, they fit into what each is looking for. Capricorn needs someone who is devoted and can create a life that is stable and dependable. It isn’t so much that Pisces is dependable, it’s that Pisces will hang in there for the long term. …
Transcript These two are very different from each other. At the beginning, of course these differences will put them into an exciting affair. Pisces is a water sign. In astrology that means that Pisces is deeply feeling and intensely romantic, and loves the whole fantasy of love and sex. Pisceans make fabulous lovers because they …
